Only you can draw the line that defines what's better for yourself... There will never exits that person that could have the magical power to show you the right way or the correct decision, or maybe that better person you could be. People can only give you choices, and for some of us it takes a long way to realize it for the fact that is easier to wait for someone to make it better... Well it's not like that at all.

There's help. I believe that we find help and some kind of energy contained in people or situations near us, but those can only transform into experiences when we make that decision, not because that person or situation leads us into it. Those who believe that, think twice and then see it clearly, nobody can have you do something just because... Manipulation is as big as you let it grow.

It's only when we put ourselves in inappropriate situations when we say "well I'd have to blame this..." And when we try to find the strength to get out, we think that this friend is the one that will help us. Could it be so easy? People don't understand that by giving so much power to certain someones they are just desperately looking for conexion, not real help.

But wait, do not misunderstand me I do believe in that friend's power, what I don't believe in is that lack of self-authority just because we rather lay everything on someone else's shoulders. That's why sometimes we feel so big for some people, 'cause they feel that without us they could fall... Oh dear, far from true.. Far from right.

Is not to push that special help aside, but to know that we are the only owners of our choices and decisions. That only we can define when it's time to make a change or find new perspectives. Also that we never put ourselves into bad situations followed by bad choices without really knowing what we're doing... If not, then consider yourself pretty stupid (you know you're not)

And for you, yep you... New things always feel this right... But don't forget that it's better to delay the pleasure than to eat it like candy.

Image by: Wal*
Lyrics by Trapt

Liquid courage pouring down,
sober surface hits the ground,
the masquerade has started now,
and you have faded into the crowd

How do you know?
How do you know
just who your friends are?
How do you know
when you've gone too far
to get high again?

You always feel so alone,
the real you is never shown.
Whose influence,
whose influence are you under?

So much pressure to fit in,
you never know where to begin.
Whose influence,
whose influence are you under now?

Liquid courage pouring down,
sober surface can't be found,
there's no denial you can drown,
but nothing's final so turn around

How do you know?
How do you know
just who your friends are?
How do you know
when you've gone too far
to get high again?

You always feel so alone,
the real you is never shown.
Whose influence,
whose influence are you under now?

So much pressure to fit in,
you never know where to begin.
Whose influence,
whose influence are you under now?

I want this...
Do I want this?
I want this / I want this
Do I want this? / Do I want this?
I want this / I want this
Do I want this?

How do you know?
How do you know
just who your friends are?
How do you know
when you've gone too far?

You always feel so alone,
the real you is never shown.
Whose influence,
whose influence are you under now?

So much pressure to fit in,
you never know where to begin.
Whose influence,
whose influence are you under now?
Whose influence,
whose influence, whose influence
are you under now?