Commitment

Does that word really represent a lot? Or is it just the fame that has gained?

Let's define it (Wikipedia): Commitment means to duty or pledge to something or someone, and can refer to: • Personal commitment, interaction dominated by obligations. These obligations may be mutual, or self-imposed, or explicitly stated, or may not.

Many words that show me where the term gets so scary: duty, dominated, obligations.. I guess that to give a concept, those words need to be used, but from my point of view (or at least the point of view I'm trying to give here) is the following:

People has created a monster out of this definition because of the reactions that get created after making a certain commitment. They tend to see the biggest picture before seeing the very small rut of this action: I make commitments all the time, and that just means the beginning and honest start of an emotional connection. But I guess that this already represents a big deal for some...

I guess that in my case I easily make these commitments because I'm able to identify where I'll find good connections, and once I find them I can't stop sharing myself to them... But what's the cost of all this I give and allow others to take? What's the purpose of these connections?... The commitment begins the moment that our feelings get exposed, even when sometimes we still don't know what they mean...

Some could already be in a relationship and still have made this commitment with anyone just because they have shown their emotions and sensations to the other person, connecting to them... I have made a couple of commitments as well just for being so open with how and what I feel.. But what have I put on the table for them to grab? Where's the deal between letting people know about feelings and take actions based on them..? Am I compromising myself?